We Have No Secrets – or do we?
I’ve spent the past 30 days trying to decide how to resume blogging after a long, unintended absence. Being an open and straightforward person, I considered a highly personal “here’s what went wrong” post. Since I am also an apologist, I was certainly going to include profuse offers of regret, and promise to never let it happen again. Another consideration was to post as if I hadn’t been gone at all. Or maybe just say “I’m back” and drop it. What to do, what to do?
Finally, I consulted the best expert I know – my daughter Amy. Being a professional writer and long-time blogger, she is highly qualified to advise me. I know she has my back.
My daughter pointed me toward some resources, and advised me that there are a whole lot of blogs out there that are apologizing for not blogging. In fact, blogs that resume after extended absences generally follow one of the formats I’d already considered: explanation, apology, or acknowledgment only. Good information, but not the kind of “do this” kick-in-the-butt that I was looking for.
Finally, while listening to one of my old albums, I made my decision. I’ve been gone, and now I’m back. I’m not going to explain, because Carly Simon told me not to.



Yes! Welcome back! And I appreciate that you trust my counsel.
I would like to take this opportunity to put in yet another plug for Mad Men. This current season has been exploring the idea of work-life balance – and whether it’s even possible to have a life outside of work, or vice versa. And of course, a number of characters make questionable and drama-inducing choices that really blur those boundaries. It would be realllllyyy interesting from an HR perspective …
I appreciate everything you say and do!
I would like to start watching Mad Men at Season 1. Unfortunately, Netflix has been unable to send it; my queue indicates “A Very Long Wait” for this. Starting to watch it midway through the current season (the 4th?) seems unproductive.
Carly (and Amy) are wise women! Glad you’re back Joan!
Robin, I really appreciate your comment! I agree wholeheartedly – Amy are Carly are wise!